It’s a myth that everyone has something to teach us. Imagining that people who have never studied a topic should have a voice at the table is often silly.

But sometimes we disagree because we simply dislike someone or don’t understand how they are explaining themselves.

Learn to listen. Ask yourself if there’s something they’re saying you can learn from. Try to understand them well enough that you can explain what they’re saying, even if you disagree.

And smile. At least mentally. Because the one you’re disagreeing with may simply not have thought through the implications of what they’re saying.

Don’t assume malice. Be kind. But hold your ground.